Some relationships can be described as toxic when, due to intense emotional reactivity and interaction patterns, it does not promote the defensive, and otherwise harm an individual’s mental, emotional, and physical, well-being and growth of their respective partners. The relationship is getting off balance, the factors that influence the sense of being influenced by direct individual inner balance, health and safety of each partner.
Partners in the relationship of toxic tend to relate to each other as to another extension or themselves, in other words, as preconceived projection formed earlier. As a result, their exchanges, in particular, the actions of everyday give and take that it is important to maintain contact, often mistaken, superficial or emotionally separated, and in times of stress or crisis, just a desperate attempt to self-protection is rooted in fear.
The relationship is toxic, connect is off balance. Aware, both partners colluded with one another, inevitably caught up in one or more of the toxic interaction patterns.
Neurological findings in the last decade shows that we are transferred to certain protective behavior early in life, and that this became a custom response automatically activated throughout life, often without awareness. Parts of the brain that control the custom, known as the subconscious mind, do not let go of a long pattern of nerves, especially ones easily woven into the fabric of the brain during childhood experiences associated with survival fears, namely, refusal or neglect.